Monday 3 October 2011

Question?

I have a question / vent!!
Why do people feel the need to always ask married couples (newly or otherwise) when the kids are coming!! Now i don't mind the question from time to time BUT lately it has just been tooo much for me!!! Every second person has been asking us when we are having kids!! People i see all the time, people i haven't seen in years, over email, over whats app its just crazy!!
We do want kids but we also want it to be at the right time...
i went to a baby shower on Saturday and it was lovely and amazing accept for the 20 ladies saying "so when is it your turn" or "you must be next hey" or "when are you having a baby" - i feel this is quite a personal question that should not be asked as a conversation filler!!!
We have been married for over 5 years and have LOVED the time just the two of us... a little under a year ago we got Tim's and then Holly Bear and felt our little family was complete until the next faze... when that will be who can say!
For over 5 years, since the day we go married, that has been what people have been asking me and im a little bit over it now!!

Ok vent session over!

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